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When is it ok to have pauses & silences in a conversation with a stranger?

Not all situations call for conversation. While it is true that lots of talk among friends builds friendship, if you find yourself in public settings with strangers, talking isn’t always necessary.

 

The person on the bus or plane next to you might not be interested in making small talk the whole trip—and that’s perfectly fine. If the other person gives a lot of one-word responses, folds his or her arms, or leans away, those are signals that he or she may prefer just to stay quiet.

 

If someone is using up all your time and won’t let you end the conversation, use an excuse such as needing to get another drink, as a reason for exiting.

 

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When you speak to strangers try & help to solve problems?

I find that helping someone solve a problem reduces the awkwardness between you.

Asking a friend for advice is another great way to keep conversations interesting and flowing. 

Talking about problems and solutions can take a long time—and give you something to check up on the next time you see someone.

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Ask questions to find out more?

I find asking questions in conversations with strangers helps to move the chat along a bit and clarify things too. 

 

If you know that you will be in a situation where you will be talking to strangers, try to plan at least three open-ended “go-to” questions (that start with “how” or “what”) that you can use if you get into an awkward conversation. 

 

Don’t struggle too hard with these either. Something simple like, “So, what’s keeping you busy these days?” will work.

 

Just be careful not to ask too many questions in a row, or you may come across like Jessica Flecther in murder she wrote.

 

This blog is a snippet from my podcast and video where you can listen and watch the full versions by clicking on the links below.


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So I love giving advice on how to speak more effectively at work or social events. Here are some free tips from this months course and you can grab them by joining the mailing list. Let me know what you think. https://linktr.ee/leighannesvoice_

 

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Do you find it easy to talk to strangers? Shoe In Technique

The best advice for starting a conversation is actually quite simple—focus on the other person or say something light-hearted. People love talking about themselves.

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Often, the person with whom you are trying to start a conversation will have some unique aspect of themselves. Perhaps it is an item of jewellery, an unusual shirt, or maybe even a tattoo; something distinctive that tells a story about the person. Items like this give you a starting point for conversation.

 

Say something like:

  • Love your hair… is it from Ali Express?

 

  • Girl where did you get them shoes from?

 

Be sure to avoid anything too intimate as a starting point or you’re likely to offend the other person. 

After you receive a response, have something else to say that will give you a common platform on which to build a conversation and a relationship.

Remember, the goal is not to say the perfect thing or come across a certain way, but to open the door for more conversation.

 

This blog is a snippet from my podcast and video where you can listen and watch the full versions by clicking on the links below.


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So I love giving advice on how to speak more effectively at work or social events. Here are some free tips from this months course and you can grab them by joining the mailing list. Let me know what you think. https://linktr.ee/leighannesvoice_


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